It's tough being a woman in a mean world.
(A world is mean because of mean people)



1. Meanness always has a history.


Insecurity is the heart of every rivalry.


There is nothing meaner than a coward. (this tends to drive the meanness)




2. Meanness percieves a threat.


With that being said you need to identify the threat and change it.




3. Meanness is a virus.


Coming in contact with a mean person can make you a mean person.




4. Meanness is curable.

Be a darling doll, be kind to those you like and dislike, break the cycle of meanness. After all, it's tough being a woman in a mean world.



Romans 12:17-21 (New International Version)
Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody.
If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written:
"It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord.

On the contrary:

"If your enemy is hungry, feed him;if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head."

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.